The Anonymous Us Project is a safety zone for real and honest insights regarding third party reproduction (sperm & egg donation, and surrogacy). We aim to share the experiences of people whose lives have been affected by third party reproduction while preserving the dignity and privacy for story-tellers and their loved ones.

All stories are contributed anonymously because "anonymity in reproduction hides the truth, but anonymity in story-telling helps reveal the truth."

Read in paperback now!

Featured Stories

Response to “Do I wait or do I tell?”

I am a PhD Candidate in Clinical Psychology. I am also the mother of a daughter whose father was absent for most of her life. Understanding how she felt at his absence, I personally sought to find him for her, and to her delight, found she had 2 other sisters in addition to the seven siblings I gave her. I can tell you one thing: As a mother, I felt threatened but also knew her hurt. I never wanted her to hurt. That motivated me to help her find the man. Now, I hear your feelings as being that of…

Happy Father’s Day!

Yesterday was a major day for me but only internally. This past year I discovered and met my half sibs for the first time, so I feel like this past year has been sperm donor themed as it has affected my life most this year. Anyway, I am not sure if I consider Father’s Day a bad day or a good day of the year. It was a bad day in a sense of frustration. I spent the day searching the internet as I often do, with my small amount of non-identifying information that only leads to dead ends. I…

Subscribe to the Newsletter

  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.