The Anonymous Us Project is a safety zone for real and honest insights regarding third party reproduction (sperm & egg donation, and surrogacy). We aim to share the experiences of people whose lives have been affected by third party reproduction while preserving the dignity and privacy for story-tellers and their loved ones.

All stories are contributed anonymously because "anonymity in reproduction hides the truth, but anonymity in story-telling helps reveal the truth."

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Donor Conceived through Private Arrangments

My biological mother was bisexual, and at the time of my conception she was in a relationship with another woman. They couldn’t afford to conceive me through a clinic, so they made private arrangements with my non-biological mother’s nephew and he donated the sperm which conceived me, making me related to both of my mums. Their relationship ended a year after I was born, and in my early years I lived with my biological mother but had regular contact with my other mum and I moved in with her through my teen years and I still live with her to…

My boyfriend “donated” sperm.

Now that we’re serious I’m concerned about this and the ethics of sperm donation in general. I don’t like that sperm banks separate families across the globe and I don’t support the commodification of children. I don’t like that they disparage half-siblings, simply because they share one biological parent so it shouldn’t matter if they’re separated according to the logic of some people. It’s a very lucrative business that’s protected by the people that are desperate to have their “own” children. Since blood relations are so important to them, don’t they think that their children will wonder who their biological…

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