The Anonymous Us Project is a safety zone for real and honest insights regarding third party reproduction (sperm & egg donation, and surrogacy). We aim to share the experiences of people whose lives have been affected by third party reproduction while preserving the dignity and privacy for story-tellers and their loved ones.

All stories are contributed anonymously because "anonymity in reproduction hides the truth, but anonymity in story-telling helps reveal the truth."

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Featured Stories

Seek and Ye Shall Find

I was in my 20’s, living in a state far from where I grew up. I was single and working at a major university when I saw an ad for sperm donors. I called the number listed and set up an appointment. At the appointment I filled out a long questionnaire and was required to leave a semen sample. At some point I was given a physical by a doctor, but I think this may have been on a subsequent visit. The man who was “in charge” of the donors showed me my sperm under a microscope. My count wasn’t…

New Son, Maybe

Around thirty years ago, while my wife was pregnant with our second child, I saw an ad for donors at our local hospital, in Baltimore. My wife and I knew people that had problems with fertility, in various ways, and I thought it would be a positive thing to get involved. I asked my wife, and with her permission I signed up. There was money too, but it was negligible, and hardly worth the 20 mile drive from my house. Over the next 2.5 years, and two pregnancies, I remained in the program. The rules were that I had no…

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