The Anonymous Us Project is a safety zone for real and honest insights regarding third party reproduction (sperm & egg donation, and surrogacy). We aim to share the experiences of people whose lives have been affected by third party reproduction while preserving the dignity and privacy for story-tellers and their loved ones.

All stories are contributed anonymously because "anonymity in reproduction hides the truth, but anonymity in story-telling helps reveal the truth."

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Featured Stories

ABC News

Hi everyone, I am a Producer with ABC News who is very interested in sharing your perspectives with the world — tying them in to a shared story not often told: a call to end third party reproduction. I’ve seen and heard stories about the legal issues involved, the questions surrounding ethics, and the children produced by third parties who wish it hadn’t happened at all. Ultimately, I’d love to film short-form documentary-style piece of present adults who wrestle every day with a decision that was seemingly made without their consent. Fully aware that this is a sensitive and deeply…

The Price of Motherhood

I was conceived in a doctor’s office. No, not in a “Girls Gone Wild: Hot Doctor Edition” way, in an “I already bought the sperm, so what the hell?” kind of way. My mother was a single forty-year-old English teacher who desperately wanted a child. This classic mommy-wannabe crisis is Rom-Com gold. But, she was no Tina Fey in Baby Mama. The boyfriends didn’t want children, the adoption agency rejected her application, and her polycystic ovaries sent eviction notices to their tenants. Everyone — including her own body — told her no. She would have to do this motherhood thing…

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